Thank you to all who helped.
I sorted out the problem. I bought some cards and it took me to a page that I had not seen before (asked for my email address and home address and phone number) so filled that in paid for my beautiful cards ( That I cant wait to make, Unfortunately not today) and then I logged in and whoo hoo I was accepted. Yeah for me

I guess its just a matter of learning the site and where everything is. But on the whole it is a very easy site to manage..
Again Thank you
Tess